WEBVTT Kind: captions Language: en 00:00:00.295 --> 00:00:02.124 (instrumental guitar music) 00:00:04.972 --> 00:00:07.318 - [Dr. Jenn] Is being told what to do something 00:00:07.318 --> 00:00:10.639 that bothers you in all areas of your life? 00:00:10.639 --> 00:00:12.542 - Is this happening now? 00:00:12.542 --> 00:00:13.935 - When you are in a room with me, 00:00:13.935 --> 00:00:15.677 therapy is always happening. 00:00:15.677 --> 00:00:16.531 - Damn. 00:00:16.531 --> 00:00:18.421 ("Try Guys Theme") 00:00:18.421 --> 00:00:20.364 - [Zach] Today we're doing group therapy. 00:00:20.364 --> 00:00:21.844 I'm super amped on this. 00:00:21.844 --> 00:00:23.804 - I've never been to therapy, but I'll do it. 00:00:23.804 --> 00:00:25.360 I dunno what it's about, but I'll do it. 00:00:25.360 --> 00:00:27.600 - I don't really see the point of it. 00:00:27.600 --> 00:00:28.541 - What could go wrong? 00:00:28.541 --> 00:00:30.085 What could go wrong? 00:00:30.085 --> 00:00:31.038 So many things. 00:00:31.038 --> 00:00:31.828 - I'm Dr. Jenn. 00:00:31.828 --> 00:00:34.068 - [In unison] Hi, Dr. Jenn. 00:00:34.068 --> 00:00:35.030 - Welcome to therapy. 00:00:35.030 --> 00:00:37.521 - Should we lie down on each other? 00:00:37.521 --> 00:00:38.084 - You don't have to. 00:00:38.084 --> 00:00:40.092 We're not doing Freudian analysis, 00:00:40.092 --> 00:00:41.214 but I do want you to be comfortable. 00:00:41.214 --> 00:00:42.370 - Lay on him. 00:00:42.370 --> 00:00:43.782 I think therapy is super useful, 00:00:43.782 --> 00:00:45.963 and not something that anyone should ever be afraid of. 00:00:45.963 --> 00:00:47.356 - So what do you do? 00:00:47.356 --> 00:00:48.215 - I'm a shrink. 00:00:48.215 --> 00:00:50.420 I do individual therapy, couples' therapy, 00:00:50.420 --> 00:00:52.741 family therapy, and group therapy. 00:00:52.741 --> 00:00:54.936 This is almost like work therapy. 00:00:54.936 --> 00:00:57.072 You probably eat together, 00:00:57.072 --> 00:00:58.907 you talk in between shoots together. 00:00:58.907 --> 00:00:59.995 - We've slept together. 00:00:59.995 --> 00:01:00.679 - We have slept together. 00:01:00.679 --> 00:01:01.649 - There, you sleep together. 00:01:01.649 --> 00:01:02.417 - Not the coolest kind, yet. 00:01:02.417 --> 00:01:03.369 - Not the coolest kind. 00:01:03.369 --> 00:01:04.147 - Yeah. 00:01:04.147 --> 00:01:05.041 - The G kind. 00:01:05.041 --> 00:01:06.735 - We're great friends, we work together a lot. 00:01:06.735 --> 00:01:07.663 We work together really well, 00:01:07.663 --> 00:01:09.103 but I don't think we're perfect, 00:01:09.103 --> 00:01:10.902 and I'm really excited to see, you know, 00:01:10.902 --> 00:01:12.180 are there underlying issues? 00:01:12.180 --> 00:01:14.987 - Why should I pay someone to talk to me, 00:01:14.987 --> 00:01:16.147 when I could just talk to someone? 00:01:16.147 --> 00:01:17.888 - When you sit down with a professional, 00:01:17.888 --> 00:01:19.444 they're a neutral person. 00:01:19.444 --> 00:01:21.998 If you ask your mother, your father, 00:01:21.998 --> 00:01:23.403 your best friend, one of these guys, 00:01:23.403 --> 00:01:25.760 everyone has their own agenda in your life, 00:01:25.760 --> 00:01:26.897 even if it's positive. 00:01:26.897 --> 00:01:30.020 When you see a professional, they don't have an agenda. 00:01:30.020 --> 00:01:31.424 - What if I feel like I'm doing really good? 00:01:31.424 --> 00:01:32.806 I think I'm pretty perfect. 00:01:32.806 --> 00:01:35.801 - I believe everyone has room for improvement. 00:01:35.801 --> 00:01:38.327 - Strong men talk about their feelings, bro. 00:01:38.327 --> 00:01:40.225 - I think a lot of people think that I'm the most 00:01:40.225 --> 00:01:42.349 conceited Try Guy, because of my hair. 00:01:42.349 --> 00:01:43.765 I think Keith is the most conceited. 00:01:43.765 --> 00:01:45.647 - I'm Keith, of the Try Guys, 00:01:45.647 --> 00:01:48.805 A.K.A Justin Timberlake of NSYNC. 00:01:48.805 --> 00:01:50.927 - We're on camera a lot doing bits. 00:01:50.927 --> 00:01:54.005 - I hope people think I'm so cool, I'm so down to earth. 00:01:54.005 --> 00:01:55.781 - But a lot of Keith's funny stuff is 00:01:55.781 --> 00:01:58.985 about wanting to be the center of attention. 00:01:58.985 --> 00:02:01.446 Almost to the point of being kinda conceited. 00:02:01.446 --> 00:02:03.280 - [Keith] The crowd just screamed bloody murder, 00:02:03.280 --> 00:02:05.677 just by being beautiful Keith and the rest. 00:02:05.677 --> 00:02:07.089 - And it makes me uncomfortable. 00:02:07.089 --> 00:02:08.423 - Everybody's really talented in 00:02:08.423 --> 00:02:09.584 Try Guys at what they're good at. 00:02:09.584 --> 00:02:10.966 I think that my skills are probably 00:02:10.966 --> 00:02:12.439 lower than everyone else's, 00:02:12.439 --> 00:02:14.681 on the things other than performing, 00:02:14.681 --> 00:02:17.280 so I play more into the performance aspect, 00:02:17.280 --> 00:02:18.568 because that's one of the things 00:02:18.568 --> 00:02:20.148 that I do think I'm good at. 00:02:20.148 --> 00:02:21.807 - Did you know that about him? 00:02:21.807 --> 00:02:24.165 - No, I didn't know that about him. 00:02:24.165 --> 00:02:26.939 I said something difficult to Keith. 00:02:26.939 --> 00:02:28.599 He wasn't defensive. 00:02:28.599 --> 00:02:31.560 He was kind of was very introspective about it. 00:02:31.560 --> 00:02:35.808 I think you are one of the best performers, if not the best. 00:02:35.808 --> 00:02:36.725 - You know, it's hard to bring up 00:02:36.725 --> 00:02:38.025 a concern you have with somebody, 00:02:38.025 --> 00:02:39.047 but I'm glad that he did, 00:02:39.047 --> 00:02:42.646 so if it's something that I can change, then I'll change it. 00:02:42.646 --> 00:02:44.527 I think Zach should be more confident. 00:02:44.527 --> 00:02:45.281 - I sometimes feel like I need to 00:02:45.281 --> 00:02:47.046 say like three times as many lines as them 00:02:47.046 --> 00:02:49.298 just to get one good quote in. 00:02:49.298 --> 00:02:52.306 When I was a kid, I was not good at anything else, 00:02:52.306 --> 00:02:54.237 like, that's why I started doing creative stuff, 00:02:54.237 --> 00:02:55.618 and that's part of why I was depressed. 00:02:55.618 --> 00:02:57.053 Like I hated doing sports. 00:02:57.053 --> 00:02:57.867 That's how you're cool. 00:02:57.867 --> 00:02:59.131 You're either cool 'cause you play sports, 00:02:59.131 --> 00:03:00.466 or you don't play sports and you're not cool, 00:03:00.466 --> 00:03:00.973 so I wasn't cool. 00:03:00.973 --> 00:03:02.228 (announcer's yelling) 00:03:02.228 --> 00:03:03.811 - [Voiceover] Weak transition there out of Zach. 00:03:03.811 --> 00:03:05.043 - [Voiceover] That's gotta be one of the worst 00:03:05.043 --> 00:03:07.596 transitions I've ever seen on American Ninja Warrior. 00:03:07.596 --> 00:03:10.290 - Zach has a tendency to be really worried about stuff. 00:03:10.290 --> 00:03:12.496 - I'm not a masculine man, I never have been, 00:03:12.496 --> 00:03:13.785 and I have no qualms about that. 00:03:13.785 --> 00:03:15.398 - Are you like scared to get hit? 00:03:15.398 --> 00:03:16.362 - Absolutely. 00:03:16.362 --> 00:03:18.138 (gasping) 00:03:18.138 --> 00:03:19.597 - Don't you have problems about that? 00:03:19.597 --> 00:03:21.594 That's like, I would have so many problems with that. 00:03:21.594 --> 00:03:22.974 - What's the alternative? 00:03:22.974 --> 00:03:24.018 - When you say, you know, 00:03:24.018 --> 00:03:26.537 "I'm not that masculine, I'm not that strong guy," 00:03:26.537 --> 00:03:28.639 I think that you're stronger than 00:03:28.639 --> 00:03:30.392 you give yourself credit for. 00:03:30.392 --> 00:03:32.389 - I think he gets in his own way sometimes. 00:03:32.389 --> 00:03:35.593 - I'm never confident in what I've done on a shoot. 00:03:35.593 --> 00:03:38.936 I always just see the thing that I didn't do right. 00:03:38.936 --> 00:03:41.514 - When you obsess and beat yourself up, 00:03:41.514 --> 00:03:43.034 it ceases to become productive. 00:03:43.034 --> 00:03:44.613 Whereas you're able to take and go, 00:03:44.613 --> 00:03:47.074 "Okay, this is how I grow as a performer," 00:03:47.074 --> 00:03:48.537 well then it's actually kind of 00:03:48.537 --> 00:03:51.358 a good thing that it happened. 00:03:51.358 --> 00:03:52.937 - Shit, Dr. Jenn. 00:03:52.937 --> 00:03:54.829 (laughing) 00:03:54.829 --> 00:03:56.096 - Ned should be more comfortable being 00:03:56.096 --> 00:03:57.894 himself in more places. 00:03:57.894 --> 00:04:00.657 - I'm a manager with a lot of other responsibilities. 00:04:00.657 --> 00:04:02.909 I feel like I don't always have as much 00:04:02.909 --> 00:04:05.869 time to commit to doing Try Guys projects, 00:04:05.869 --> 00:04:08.249 and I end up working extra. 00:04:08.249 --> 00:04:10.745 - Balance I think would be good for Ned. 00:04:10.745 --> 00:04:13.264 - So I talked about Keith earlier, 00:04:13.264 --> 00:04:16.097 and I was thinking about it more as we were talking, 00:04:16.097 --> 00:04:18.581 and I think a lot if it stems from 00:04:18.581 --> 00:04:20.799 me being pulled in a lot of different directions, 00:04:20.799 --> 00:04:22.761 both in work and family life. 00:04:22.761 --> 00:04:25.186 - You're actually being a role model to these guys 00:04:25.186 --> 00:04:27.080 when it comes to being in a relationship. 00:04:27.080 --> 00:04:28.600 - I am married. - [Eugene] Ned is married. 00:04:28.600 --> 00:04:29.871 Ned is married as fuck. 00:04:29.871 --> 00:04:30.446 - My wife. 00:04:30.446 --> 00:04:30.933 My wife. 00:04:30.933 --> 00:04:31.966 I miss my wife. 00:04:31.966 --> 00:04:34.775 We are thinking about having a baby. 00:04:34.775 --> 00:04:37.213 I sometimes get anxious that I'm not 00:04:37.213 --> 00:04:41.371 being as much of a contributor to the group as I can, 00:04:41.371 --> 00:04:42.832 and I have to compensate for that. 00:04:42.832 --> 00:04:44.538 - Did you guys know that he felt that way? 00:04:44.538 --> 00:04:47.094 - I mean, he's in a really tough place, 00:04:47.094 --> 00:04:49.532 and I think it's really admirable how much he's able to do. 00:04:49.532 --> 00:04:51.817 - I'd like for you to look at your schedule, 00:04:51.817 --> 00:04:54.918 and kinda go "Okay, where can I have some down time?" 00:04:54.918 --> 00:04:59.491 Even if it's 20 minutes of vegging out, 00:04:59.491 --> 00:05:01.292 you know, playing computer games, 00:05:01.292 --> 00:05:03.821 or just like hanging out with your wife. 00:05:03.821 --> 00:05:07.676 I think you need to start inserting those into your life, 00:05:07.676 --> 00:05:10.277 so that you don't resent other people. 00:05:10.277 --> 00:05:13.039 - I have an ironic sense that therapy is explicitly designed 00:05:13.039 --> 00:05:15.616 for people like me who don't have access to their feelings. 00:05:15.616 --> 00:05:16.952 - We gotta push that wall down. 00:05:16.952 --> 00:05:18.727 Eugene's gotta have his walls pushed down. 00:05:18.727 --> 00:05:20.573 - You have a little bit of a rebellious spirit. 00:05:20.573 --> 00:05:21.339 - A little bit? 00:05:21.339 --> 00:05:22.092 (laughing) 00:05:22.092 --> 00:05:24.353 - Have you electrocuted anyone's taint before? 00:05:24.353 --> 00:05:25.008 - No. 00:05:25.008 --> 00:05:26.302 - Oh my god, it's even worse now. 00:05:26.302 --> 00:05:27.518 Oh this is the worst. 00:05:27.518 --> 00:05:28.982 - I feel like you shut me out. 00:05:28.982 --> 00:05:31.036 Eugene is one of the most uniquely 00:05:31.036 --> 00:05:32.835 talented people I've ever encountered. 00:05:32.835 --> 00:05:35.182 I feel like a lot of the time when, 00:05:35.182 --> 00:05:37.243 you know, Eugene takes the lead on Ned, 00:05:37.243 --> 00:05:38.137 he doesn't want our help, 00:05:38.137 --> 00:05:39.820 and he doesn't want us to get involved, 00:05:39.820 --> 00:05:41.364 and it's a little hurtful. 00:05:41.364 --> 00:05:42.787 - Did you know he felt that way? 00:05:42.787 --> 00:05:44.383 - I am aware that I shut people out 00:05:44.383 --> 00:05:46.008 during creative processes. 00:05:46.008 --> 00:05:48.341 - You could even be missing out 00:05:48.341 --> 00:05:50.965 on things from these three guys, 00:05:50.965 --> 00:05:53.681 that might make your next video even better. 00:05:53.681 --> 00:05:55.283 So you were saying that you 00:05:55.283 --> 00:05:56.885 don't like to be told what to do? 00:05:56.885 --> 00:05:57.821 - Yeah, I'd agree with that. 00:05:57.821 --> 00:06:00.364 I have two sisters, where I know we were highly competitive. 00:06:00.364 --> 00:06:01.429 - [Eugene's sister] How are you so skinny? 00:06:01.429 --> 00:06:03.304 - We can prove to mom I'm finally the prettiest sister. 00:06:03.304 --> 00:06:04.953 - Oh my god! 00:06:04.953 --> 00:06:06.486 - But as a family, it's kind of like, 00:06:06.486 --> 00:06:07.913 the underlying expectation was 00:06:07.913 --> 00:06:09.505 just to be better than everyone else. 00:06:09.505 --> 00:06:11.246 - It must have been a lot of pressure. 00:06:11.246 --> 00:06:12.092 - Yeah, yeah. 00:06:12.092 --> 00:06:13.887 So if I was gonna be the artsy one, which I was, 00:06:13.887 --> 00:06:15.993 I had to be the best artsy person. 00:06:15.993 --> 00:06:16.406 - [Dr. Jenn] Yeah. 00:06:16.406 --> 00:06:18.031 - Touch my hands. 00:06:18.031 --> 00:06:18.368 - Why? 00:06:18.368 --> 00:06:18.618 - Oh, they're sweaty. 00:06:18.618 --> 00:06:19.861 - Your hands are really sweaty right now. 00:06:19.861 --> 00:06:21.961 - Ew, ew, why'd you do that? 00:06:21.961 --> 00:06:23.268 - 'Cause I don't wanna be here. 00:06:23.268 --> 00:06:24.180 - That was awful. 00:06:24.180 --> 00:06:24.592 (laughing) 00:06:24.592 --> 00:06:26.612 - I get that the family you come from, 00:06:26.612 --> 00:06:28.146 you're not used to talking about certain things, 00:06:28.146 --> 00:06:31.012 so it's uncomfortable to talk about it, 00:06:31.012 --> 00:06:33.322 but my goal is for you to leave here knowing 00:06:33.322 --> 00:06:35.552 more about yourself than before I got here. 00:06:35.552 --> 00:06:36.898 - Blegh. 00:06:36.898 --> 00:06:38.070 This is highly uncomfortable. 00:06:38.070 --> 00:06:39.336 - I like that he had an insight, 00:06:39.336 --> 00:06:40.891 and then immediately recoiled from it. 00:06:40.891 --> 00:06:42.400 (laughing) 00:06:45.260 --> 00:06:50.260 - I feel something, I just don't know what it is. 00:06:50.516 --> 00:06:52.199 - Thank you so much for trusting me, 00:06:52.199 --> 00:06:55.473 and opening up to me, and for being open to this process. 00:06:55.473 --> 00:06:56.600 I appreciate it. 00:06:56.600 --> 00:06:57.296 - Thank you, Dr. Jenn. 00:06:57.296 --> 00:06:58.544 - Thank you, Dr. Jenn. - [Keith] Thank you, Dr. Jenn. 00:06:58.544 --> 00:07:00.895 - The scariest thing I ever done, in this series, 00:07:00.895 --> 00:07:04.282 is sit down with my friends and a woman 00:07:04.282 --> 00:07:07.126 who is just intent on knowing more about me. 00:07:07.126 --> 00:07:08.624 Maybe I should just open up all around? 00:07:08.624 --> 00:07:10.063 Maybe I should go to therapy? 00:07:10.063 --> 00:07:10.668 - Hug. 00:07:10.668 --> 00:07:11.688 - [Try Guys in unison] Hug! 00:07:11.688 --> 00:07:12.885 - [Keith] Oh, that's Eugene's favorite. 00:07:12.885 --> 00:07:16.622 Eugene loves this, he's gonna be so excited. 00:07:16.622 --> 00:07:18.643 Oh my god, he's gonna love to hug. 00:07:18.643 --> 00:07:20.466 - [Dr. Jenn] Aww, thank you. 00:07:20.466 --> 00:07:21.022 - [Keith] Here he comes. 00:07:21.022 --> 00:07:21.390 - [Dr. Jenn] Thank you. 00:07:21.390 --> 00:07:23.189 - I don't mind hugging Dr. Jenn. 00:07:23.189 --> 00:07:25.833 No, I thought you were gonna make us do a group hug... 00:07:25.833 --> 00:07:27.741 - [Try Guys in unison] Yay. 00:07:29.511 --> 00:07:31.224 (upbeat instrumental music)